Abantu abaninzi bayabajongela phantsi abantwana. Yintoni abacinga ukuba banokuyiqonda kuphela ngabantwana abakhulu? Ndifuna nje ukubanika isigidi esinye ngeli xesha, ishumi lezigidi abayiqondi into ethethwayo? Ewe, abayiqondi le nto, kodwa abantwana abaninzi ngabantwana abakrelekrele kakhulu. Ukuba ubanika into ethile, baya kufunda ngokukhawuleza, kwaye nobuchule babo bokulinganisa bunamandla kakhulu. Ukuze abantwana babo bakhule ngcono, abazali abaninzi bathenga oomatshini bokufundisa abantwana babo kwangethuba ukuze bafunde. Banethemba lokuba abantwana babo baya kukhula ngcono kwaye baphuhle ngcono. Abazali abanale ngcinga bachanekile, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba nabo bangabazali abakhathaleleyo abantwana babo.
Enyanisweni, abazali abaninzi bathanda ukuthenga oomatshini bokufundisa abantwana babo njengezipho zomhla wokuzalwa, kwaye oomatshini bokufundisa abantwana baya ngokuya emakhayeni abantwana babo kwaye kancinci kancinci bangena ebomini babantwana babo. Le yinto evuyisayo ebantwaneni. Ngokukho koomatshini bokufundisa abantwana abancinci, imfundo yabantwana abaninzi ayibalulekanga, kwaye zonke izinto ezifanelekileyo ukuba bafunde zifakiwe koomatshini bokufundisa abantwana abancinci. Ngenxa yokuba umatshini wokufundisa abantwana abancinci awungomatshini olula, ngumatshini owenziwe liqela leengcali ngokusekelwe kwimikhwa yokukhula komntwana, umsebenzi wokufundisa umntwana, kunye nemikhwa yomntwana. Akukho mabali athile kuphela kuwo. Uvumela abantwana ukuba bamamele ibali ngelixa bedlala, kwaye bakhumbule izinto ezisebalini ngeentliziyo zabo. Kukwakho nomculo othile kuwo, ovumela abantwana ukuba batye kwaye badlale ngelixa bemamele umculo. Uphuhliso lweengqondo zabo, Ukuze inkumbulo yabo kunye nokucinga kwabo kuphuhliswe kakhulu. Enyanisweni, nokuba loluphi uhlobo lomatshini wokufundisa abantwana abaselula, basatyebile kumsebenzi onzima weqela lophando nophuhliso, kwaye abazali abafuna umntwana aphuhliswe kakhulu nabo banamathemba amakhulu kwezi matshini zokufundisa abantwana abancinci.
Ezi matshini zemfundo yabantwana abancinci azizange zibadanise abazali. Ngoncedo lwazo, iingxaki ezininzi zabantwana kwimfundo yabantwana abancinci zisonjululwe, nto leyo ebenza abazali abaninzi bonwabe kakhulu.
Ixesha lokuthumela: Julayi-06-2021